You don’t create it. You cultivate it. And it isn’t something that you seek from a stance of “love of and for my self is not here right now.” It is already in your possession. It will never not be. You cultivate it by feeling it, feeling it allows it to nourish you and then you nurture it, by nurturing yourself with self compassion, self forgiveness, self awareness etc. And/OR if you believe in your power of intention and believe in the flexibility of your perception, simply say “all of the love that is available in this universe is within me and it is loving me. And there is no one in this universe that will receive less love because of this love loving me. By receiving and perceiving this love for me and of me, I am able to love more and my gift of love for me is a gift that I share with all of humanity.” Boom. It is done. Now, feel that. Take time to feel it. Just keep reminding yourself, You cultivate it by feeling it. Don’t get hung up on the but what does it feel like? What is supposed to feel like? Should I feel it like this or like that? Stop that thought train and just trust that you are feeling it and with practice the difference of the feeling will be known to you.

If it helps I can share what it feels like for me. For me, it feels like something that is so familiar. So familiar. Like it is so simple, yummy, and pure and something that I have also known before I was ever the me that I am. And it’s the feeling of me. This feeling is how the me that I was, that I am, that I will be feels. And oh my God, it’s Me.

Who knows what it feels like for you. Just be open to it and receive it. Be excited about it’s journey to your awareness.