- Sex isn’t perfect. Sometimes you get it right. Sometimes, well, you learn. Sometimes it’s easy. Sometimes you’re too exhausted from work. And when you have kids they give you little time for it. And after two of them they team up to make sure they have no more competitors.
- Money does matter. You’ll think you could live on love alone, not really your cant eat love for sure or pay rent pals. You might proove it the first year… yet money is important. It causes more arguments than almost anything. You’ll never have enough for everything. Just agree on how to spend what you have.
- Fight fair. Learn to attack the problems without attacking each other. Then you can make up. And that’s the best.
- Change is the new normal and as good as a rest . You’ll change through the years. Your relationship will. Kids accelerate it. We humans are made to keep adapting, learning and growing. Resisit change that come along you find yourself in hot soup.
- You’ll fall out of love. Occasionally. Ok, sometimes more. Careers, kids, sickness, stress all take their toll on your passion. Some days you’ll feel passionately in love. Some days you’ll wonder, “What the hell?” Just do the things that make sure you keep falling back in love.
- Laugh often. Seriously. You did when you were dating. Then you get married and life turns all freaking serious all the time. So joke. Tease each other lovingly like you did at first. Laugh often. Even when the other’s joke aren’t that funny.
- Pretend love: fake it and become it our brains aren’t programmed to do a certain thing always, alter through faking it. Some days your relationship is easy. Some days, well, you’ll wonder. In those times remember what you did when you felt so in love. Do those same things. Even when you don’t feel it. Because eventually you will again.
- You’ll both make mistakes. You’ll do and say things you regret. You’ll have good moments and some less than stellar ones. Fill your relationship with grace for the other. Give the grace you’d like to receive. Oh, and give yourself grace too.
- It gets better and better. As many struggles as you go through. If both of you stay committed and never stop loving, your relationship will grow into something amazing. It changes. But from a caterpillar into a butterfly. A stormy night into a sunny morning. The best is yet to come.
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So there you go. Learned from trial and a lot of unforced errors.
Great marriages are mysterious. And when built well, glorious.
Something I Wish you Knew Before Embarking into A Long term Relationship.
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