Excuse me POIN of Correction!!
BOREDOM IS AN EMOTION: NOT A PERSON
The person isn’t boring: we are bored when we are with that person.
-but there is someone out there who would be fascinated by that person.
The boredom is in us: not in the other person.
like for me Churchill Show is damn Boring others find it interesting!
On the other hand, people who never or rarely share an opinion, idea or story, or fail to be become an active participant in the conversation also tend to be boring more often than not.
#99 If you are interested, you will very likely be interesting. Boring people do not listen, they are just waiting for their turn to tell what they have.
#98 Boring person is absent. He or she doesn’t participate in conversations and actions, but does his or her own thing. To be interesting, become present.
#97 We all know those blah-blah-beige people that don’t have an opinion on anything..You don’t have to fight with people and push your agenda aggressively and you certainly don’t need to have an opinion on everything.
#96 Talking only about him/herself. Stop explaining us how cool you are…WE DON’T CARE! im talking of thsi certain someone Hey,you egocentric
#95 Knowing when to shut up is an awesome social skill. Don’t fill every second with words. Smile. Take a deep breath. That is what confident and interesting people do.
#94 people who fail to find other people interesting are … boring. Give people a chance, be opened to hear their stories. OK?? But oftentimes you will be surprised with ideas and stories.
For depressed persons always encourage them to become more active, as activity is one of the best antidotes for depression.
” Oh, that’s sounds boring. I wouldn’t be interested in that”
“Have you ever tried it?”
“No”
“So how do you know?”
“I JUST KNOW!”
I continue with gentle persuasion, and if I can get them to try a few easy things, I know there is a high probability that some of the boredom will go away.
BOREDOM IS AS EMOTION, CREATED BY INACTIVITY
The feeling of boredom gets stronger the less we interact with the world. That is why solitary confinement, with absolutely nothing to do, is guaranteed to produce extreme boredom and excruciating depression.The more we can force ourselves to interact, the less bored we become, – even around “boring” people.
OR iCan say this Everyone has aspects of their lives that can be fascinating to explore. Everyone has some expertise you can learn about. But it requires the correct attitude for the observer to see it.
Excessive self-focus and self-centeredness in conversational topics at the expense of other participants, without reciprocation (my job, my spouse, my company, my car, my kids, == boring and inconsiderate [*])
Repetition – dwelling on a point over and over again after the other members of the conversation get the point. I’m talking here about someone who only talks about their own stuff, and never asks “and what about you?”
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& much more weh..
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