This is purely for my own compatability. It doesnt mean they can’t be someone else’s great girlfriend.

Motivation

Mediocre: hopes you become your best self.

Good: Pushes you to become the best self.

Great: knows when and when not to push you to become your best self.

Humor

Mediocre: has a sense of humor.

Good: finds you funny and is able to laugh with you.

Great: is able to laugh with you, at you, and at herself.

Living

Mediocre: Has her own life.

Good: Has her own life that doesn’t hurt your life.

Great: Has her own life that overlaps in ways that bring you closer to her

Intellectual

Mediocre: Has thoughts.

Good: Doesn’t find my ideas or thoughts weird.

Great: Is able to offer feedback and her own ideas/thoughts.

Accountability

Mediocre: apologizes sometimes.

Good: apologizes and accepts apologies.

Great: Apologizes. Gives and accepts constructive criticism. Helps me be a better boyfriend.