1. Craving time alone- But if you’re craving me-time and wish that he or she wasn’t around, it’s clear that your relationship is giving you more frustration than joy.

2. Your Friends seems a priority than your partner-
3. You Don’t Talk About The Future– Unless you’ve only been dating your partner for a short time, it’s important to communicate about the future of your relationship. If you’re pushing your SO for marriage, but they don’t even want to talk about it, then that might be a red flag that your partner doesn’t know how to communicate. Or they just don’t see the relationship going anywhere.
4. Emotional Needs Aren’t Been Met– While not every relationship is perfect, it’s important to know what makes you and your partner feel most loved. And if your partner is not willing to satisfy those needs, then it could mean that your relationship is doomed. Talk with your partner about why you’re not happy and determine if these issues can be fixed. As long as you both are willing to communicate and listen, then anything is possible.
5. Trust– Let be real: If you don’t have trust in your relationship, then it’s most likely not going to work out, especially if you or your SO doesn’t want to work on fixing the problem.

6. Your Conflicts Include Criticism & Co-  I always do this, You never assist me in cooking, You do nothing to help out.

7. Honesty- Along with trust, being honest with your partner about your feelings is vital to make your relationship last. Taking this element out of your relationship can make your partner feel like they don’t know or trust you.
8. The Silent Treatment- Sometimes couples use this tactic to gain control of the situation and to have more power, but this isn’t healthy. The only way you’ll have a happy relationship is by simply letting go of your ego and talking things out.
9. Couple connection If you have focused so much on being a family and raising your kids, and let your couple relationship go, you may find that you’ve lost your couple connection completely. This is why so many couples break up as soon as the kids are grown (or even before). Your [husband] and wife relationship is vital — it’s the foundation your family is built on. Don’t get so into your role as parents that you forget to be partner.

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Story Story ..?

There was this couple  they were batshit crazy, you know the kind that argues in public all the time about everything, screaming at each other with zero shame.

She was a stripper. And he was a DJ at a strip club. Bet you can’t guess where they met? Yup. They got married after knowing each other for 2 weeks, so clearly they had a history of wise decisions.

So this day I visited my pal, they share same apartment FYI.

They were in this back room screaming at each other. They go back and forth while all of us sit on the couch looking at each other uncomfortably. She comes out and sits with us on the couch. We sit there in silence for a minute, the TV is on.

He comes walking out into the living room with his shirt off.

He stands there in the living room with a scowl (bad-tempered expression.)on his face.

He has this Metallica shirt in his hand (she’d bought it for him as a present a month earlier).

He holds this shirt up lights the bottom of the shirt on fire.

Then sets the shirt on the ground, a bundle of flames, right there in the middle of a carpeted floor, and walks out of the room.

I immediately went over and stomped on it.

It was pretty evident that that relationship had a pretty low percentage chance of success. (they eventually broke up after that).

Setting each other’s clothes on fire: not a good sign for a relationship.

Overestimating your partner. If you think she is too good for you. If there comes a moment when you think that you are too lucky to have her in your life and she is so precious that you can go up to any limits to please her. Then probably that it is the time to realize that your relationship will not last long.

Relationships are based completely on mutual understanding as well as mutual respect. If you consider her as a celebrity your entire life, you won’t be able to be yourself in front of her. You will have to pretend to be perfect due to the fear of losing her. And believe me, no one is perfect. Hence, the efforts that you’ll have to maneuver will be very high.

Also,  in your efforts to please her, you will lose the moments to express your love to that person and if you won’t be able to love her to the fullest then this is the sign that your relationship has 0% chance of success.