99.She should not quit her job – she should be financially independent and she should have career goals
98.She should not avoid his (husband) parents – take care of them in tough times
97.She should not lose touch with her best friends – she should stay in touch with her friends even after marriage
96.She should not lose her identity – she shouldn’t sacrifice her identity for anything
95.She should not doubt him or be over possessive on him – trust is the most important thing in any relationship
94.She should not take away his freedom – Don’t expect him to be with you 24×7, give him his own space
93.She should not change her dreams – Never let go of your dreams

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DO NOT:

DO NOT:Judge the new relatives you get from your in-laws side. Everyone has their own story. You are a fairly new chapter in a (possibly) very long book.
DO NOT: Comment on your husband’s parents, siblings, etc. about the superficial things. It’s not your business.
DO NOT:Compare your married life with your singledom-life. They happened in two different times of your life.
Do not push your single friends to fall in love/get married/have kids – Love, marriage and having kids are extremely personal things. Don’t keep egging them. They may have personal issues or they may just want to take it slow. Unasked advice is a huge turn off.
Do not expect your spouse to solve all your problems – You’ll want them to be there, want them to be supportive, give advice – all expectations justified. But you are your own person and must face your issues yourself.
Do not get pregnant right away or at least for 9 months after the wedding. Enjoy the married life with your spouse. Once you have the child, you’ll miss many intimate moments with your spouse which might affect your relationship with him/her. Many women get so busy with the children that they forget about their husband.
Be kind to your single friends-Being single is not having a contagious disease that the person should not be hanging out with his/her married friend. Your married status didn’t give you a royal status either. A good friendship is like an old wine bottle. The value gets higher with the age. Take extra step to make your friend feel welcome. Then one day you’ll be glad that you did because that friend will always be there for you.
Treat your in-laws with the same respect and compassion you’d give to your blood family. You’re now one of them. They share the blood and genes with your spouse and children. TTreat your in-laws with the same respect and compassion you’d give to your blood family. You’re now one of them. They share the blood and genes with your spouse and children.
Treat sex as a priority in your marriage Never withdraw or deny sex. Never use sex to manipulate the other person which will only lead to resentments.
Spend 15 mins undivided attention to each other every day. Sit face to face. Hold both hands, look into the eyes and just talk. Don’t think. Don’t plan topics. Just talk about anything without filtering.
Keep pursuing your passion. Take that art class. Never stop growing. Don’t give up on dreams. Don’t give up on yourself. Do not lose yourself in anyway. Encourage your spouse to grow too.

Also, stop wishing your husband on his birthday and Anniversary on social media. The poor chap is right next you on the bed. Tell him in person and don’t embarrass him on the web.

Withholding sex as a weapon for getting something she wants. If you ever get to a point in a marriage where you are using sex as either a reward or a punishment, then you shouldn’t be in that marriage.

Just because the husbands are earning more than enough, women want to sit back home and relax.(DNT, its a myth & lie) A woman must not become financially dependent on her husband after marriage.

EnD..