❤By Failing – I’ve gotten over a thousand girls’ phone numbers, which means I’ve definitely been rejected more than ten thousand times.
❤By Not Living in Other People’s Perceptions – It’s hard to have a good conversation with someone when you’re worried about what they’re thinking about you during the conversation.
❤Self – Trust – The best conversations aren’t preplanned, they happen because you trust yourself to be able to say something interesting. A lot of times I start a sentence having no idea where it will end.

❤Humor – Laughing and making others laugh takes your conversation skills to the next level, and gets people’s guard down.
❤Knowing A lot of Stuff – Having stuff to say really helps being able to talk. If you know a lot about a lot of things, you can contribute to many types of conversations, more importantly, be able to ask great questions.
❤Be a great storyteller – Get good at talking about your day, learn how to tell stories about the world around you. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve opened up a conversation with a pretty girl by saying “I just had the most amazing peanut butter and jelly sandwich…”
❤Watch YouTube Videos – There are thousands of videos describing the nuances in social dynamics, checkout Charisma on Commands channel.
❤Create Goals – I use to make sure that I would talk to at least one stranger every time I left the house. I can now make friendships effortlessly.
❤You Never Know – Where a conversation may lead, my mom and dad met on a tour bus in London. I wouldn’t be writing this if my dad didn’t work on his social skills.